My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

well, i just recently went to get my hair done, and i didnt like what she did at all. see she never really does what i want, and i dont really like the way she cuts my hair anyway, but she was a friend of the family so i kinda didnt have a choice but to go to her. and so i was sooo looking forward ot it. i had an idea and everything and i told her exactly what i wanted. she didnt cut it right nad i hate it. she didnt even give me highlights when she dyed my hair. but shes really expensive..like $200. os of course when i told my mom i despised it she told her and she called me and now im going back today to see what she can do [i think its way too short so theres not much] adn she told my mom that she hates cutting my hari because im never happy and that she might have to fire me as a client??? what?? but i am never happy because she doesnt cut it right. but should i fee lbad about this or should i push it on her?

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

In my opinion, you are the customer and the hairdresser should try to give you the right cut, especially if you are paying a lot of money for your cut! It's wrong of her to say that you are never happy because thats not her concern. Her concern is to cut your hair, no matter what mood your in. And if she didn't give you highlights when you requested them, you definately need to get them put in by her. If she doesnt want to do you hair anymore and she gave you a bad cut, I say just go to someone new, family friend or not.

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

Don't feel bad - it's a hairdresser's responsibility to respond to what their client wants, regardless of their relationship to the client. I'd say good riddance and find someone more affordable who cares what you want. I know there are personal and social obligations, but if she's already thinking about "firing" you as a client anyway (which is RIDICULOUS) then you really have no loyalty there. Tell your mom you're insulted, it's her job to do your hair as you'd like it (especially for $200!), and ask your friends who they recommend. The best hairstylists come from word-of-mouth recommendation.

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

find a new stylist

for 200 they should do what you want

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

i dont blame you

"customer always comes first"

if she doesnt do what your paying her to do then shes not a good hairdresser, maybe you didnt describe it well. which i doubt because you seem to know what you want

final word%26gt; her fault%26gt; shes wrong

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

why dont you just get a new hair dresser

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

her not giving you what you want is very unprofessional of her!!! you should really consider finding a new stylist, one who will be good and give you what you want

:)bae

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

good grief! Why all the drama? You don't like the way she does your hair, she doesn't like to work on you. A friendly parting of the ways is called for. You can still be her friend, just not her customer. Be nice about it.

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

That is so unfair! First of all, you absolutely CAN NOT "fire" someone as a client. second of all, its HER fault becuz she did not listen to her client, and THATS the reason your not happy. Dont feel bad at all, a trip to the salon should be an enjoyable experiance, not something to worry or feel guilty about! If you dont like what she did (and shes overpaying you) find a new stylist, oh and i wouldnt go to her to get your hair fixed, shell prob just make it worse.

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

You shouldnt feel bad at all if u went in there and clearly expressed to her how u wanted your hair done then she is in the wrong not u so it is not ur fault at all my mom goes threw the same thing wit one of her hairdressers if u guys hate the hair desser so much then stop goin if they neva do ur hair like u want

My hair dresser doesnt want to do my hair, and it thinking about firing me as a customer? why?

well... first of all, why do you even want to go back to someone who, for $200, doesn't give you what you asked for? I'd cut my losses, move on, and find someone you feel comfortable with. You have a right to protect your hair!!!

however, a hair stylist does have the right to refuse service to anyone... especially if it is someone who complains every time they do their hair.... where you might start to wonder if it is indeed YOU that is the problem is when the 2nd and 3rd hairstylist "fires" you as well.

She might be doing you a huge favor. Cut your losses (pun intended) and move on. Next time, pay attention.... ask why DURING the cut, color, style you are not getting what you asked for. Many times, silence implies consent. Speak up DURING the event!!!

HAIR DRESSER.... Please answer???

I am looking into getting my hair straightened... permanetly??

(or at least until it grows out, or for a few months).

I have asked allot of people what its like and things like and how its done...

I absolutely understand that its damaging to your hair... BUT

I have med-long wavy thick hair. I do not have damaged hair and have never died it, and its thick and grows fairly fast.

Would it still be OK to go through with it... which I REALLY want to do.

Dont get me wrong... I do appreciate the natural curls/waves that I have, but I consider that it would grow back eventually, and it would be a brake from the heavy wavyness...

And any other things I need to know about it before I get it done

????

Price??.... (in Canada)

HAIR DRESSER.... Please answer???

Damaging only occurs if u abuse your hair a lot. Look straightening dosent mean, you can just go easy on the maintenance. I reguarly straigthten my hair. My hair looks really great. But maintaining them is the tough part. You have a use a mild damage control shampoo, and strong conditioner. Have to oil your hair regularly. Get a hair spa once or twice in a week, for atleast a month after straightening. Also, have to regularly use a leave in conditioner. Best part of straightening is, you dont have to blow dry em. Just wash, apply leave in condit, and go out. your hair dries straight. Id say go for it if u can give time to your hair.

HAIR DRESSER.... Please answer???

right...basically chemical straightening is similar process to perming, same chemicals used etc...just no rollers.

shud not be done on bleached as..well u wont have ne left.

you need to make sure the week b4 u have it done, that u do a deep conditioning treatment and dont wash ur hair for 24 hours b4 the treatment.

and then...after....dont was hair for 48 hours, use loads of reconstructing conditioning treatments.

not sure on price over here in the uk its about 鎷?0.

HAIR DRESSER.... Please answer???

Well I couldn't tell you the price, but straightening your hair isn't going to make it any less thick or heavy and if it isn't that curly it really won't ever go completely straight just mostly. if you want a break from the thickness then get it thinned out. but i really wouldn't recommend it especially if your hair grows fast.

HAIR DRESSER.... Please answer???

HI IM A HAIR DRESSER IT IS OK TO HAVE IT STRAIGHTENED PERMANETLY IF YOU ARE GOING TO A GOOD SALON AND HAVING IT WITH THE BEST PRODUCT MONEY CAN BUY THEN YOUR HAIR WILL STILL FEEL GREAT.

HAIR DRESSER.... Please answer???

The one thing you need to know about chemical straighteners is they will not make your hair poker straight- you will still have to round-brush or flat iron your hair. It will reduce your styling time but not eliminate it completely. Also, a chemical straightener is the same thing as a permanent wave, and just as a perm relaxes, straightened hair starts waving back up. If you are looking to reduce the 'heaviness' of your hair, I think you should try a layered style and razor out the weight. Again, you won't be eliminating style time but you will reduce it. A straightener will help you get the look you want, but the cut is the important part. The end result will be lightness and movement.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

I have almost black hair (and eyebrows) but really fair skin (and freckles). I have always wanted to try being blonde, if only for a while. I recently lost 100 lbs (on my own, through sheer will power!) and I really want to do this ! I went to 2 hair salons and they both did not want to tint my eyebrows (like a medium brown?) at all and only wanted to do medium brown hair with teeny tiny highlights.

They said my hair could handle the treatment, but they don't think it will look good.

I wound up spending $300 and all they did was dye my hair medium to dark brown with a few darkest blonde tiny streaks, which I hate. I don't want to go back, it's not the money, it's just, why won't they let me dye it blonde??\

ps I'm 1/2 or more Italian descent, but so are Madonna %26amp; Gwen Stefani %26amp; they are quite blonde (I'm not saying I want to look like that).

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

If they charged you $300 for a job that you are not happy with, GO BACK! YOU are the customer and YOU are always right. If they think it will look bad, then they shouldn't have to worry because they're not the ones that have to live with it. Plus, it's not like it will be hard to go back to black if it looks terrible. COMPLAIN! That is WAAAAAY too much money to not get what you want.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

rember hair dresser always know best not unless she really jacks you up holla

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

She cant tell you what to do. Dont go their anymore and go somewhere else. Dont go back and that way we she can think twice before telling her costumer what to do.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

Maybe you should listen to him

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

It's your hair- a hairdresser cannot tell you what to do. They may think it won't look good and can make recommendations, but it's your choice. Go to a qualified person who can perform the service.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

There is a lot of damage in bleaching. That said, if you want to go blond, you have no choice but to use a lot of bleach and that damages your hair. Black is a prevailing color. I am sure that it took a lot of courage for your hairdressers to change the color to brown with highlights. Wait a little bit and then change the color to blond. You hair has a better chance of getting blond right now than before.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

get soemone else to do it.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

Going from dark brown to blonde is more than just a one step process. I suggest speaking to a colorist who is willing to help you with the process and give you the results you desire.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

i would ask the hairdresser why they think its a bad idea...and as a hairdresser, i might have to agree, you're probably not going to like it unless you go all blonde and even then, you're going to have to get it touched up like every 6 weeks which is a lot...but awesome job on the weight loss..wish i could do that...i need to loose about 90lbs...good luck

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

if i were you i would get a new hairdresser

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

Well, I'm sure they were only trying to help you make a decision that you will not be sorry for later, but if you really want to do it no matter what then just keep trying to find a hairdresser who will just do what you say and not try to give advice. There are some of those out there....or you could go back to the place that did it and tell them you are unsatified with the results because it is not what you asked for and that you want it done correctly....unless you agreed to that brown color, in which case you may not be able to do that........anyway........there's someone out there who will just do as you say no matter how they think it will look, just keep talking to hairdressers until you find someone. Good Luck.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

first wow are they overcharging......and it has to do with how many levels you can go up in hair color...without it looking like a dime store job...no hair dressser wants there name on i did that ......i think a med brown or a bit lighter without looking is best answer.....and some things defy natural acccept that..

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

Well that's why she has a shop so she can do hair. If people pays her to do their hair then she is suppose to do what they have asked of her. So its simple if she does not do it then go else where.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

Generally, going from black to blonde is VERY harsh on your hair. They would have to strip the color from it then recolor. That's a lot of chemical processes to go through and really damages your hair. Believe me, I've gone from black to blonde on more than one occassion. Sure it's cool for a little while, but when the dark roots start showing and you look like trailer trash you'll reconsider. Plus, to do the roots you'd have to bleach them out (another 2 step process) and it could break your hair at the previous bleached point.

At $300 I think you are being majorly overcharged... However, all the hairdressers I know refuse to do that drastic of a bleach job. Something about covering their own butts when things go terribly wrong...

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

What your asking for is very difficult to do correctly if your hair is dark. Depending on wether your hair is colored dark or naturally dark is an important factor. If your hair is colored dark it's very difficult to lighten. Hair color doesn't lift hair color so using a pre lightener (hair bleach) is the only option. If your hair is naturally dark (virgin) it can be colored lighter with hair color but most often grabs gold or brassy. In this case a pre lightner is also your only option. Pre lightner can damage your hair if done incorrectly. If you want your hair white blonde especially. It can take several processes just to get that light. Most stylist wouldn't want to do this process because damage can be done if it's not watched. I suggest seeing a color specialist. They can do this process correctly but will cost you plenty because it's considered color correction. Color correction takes a VERY long time. That's why it can cost so much. As far as coloring your eyebrows. Most states make it illegal for a stylist to color eye brows with hair color because manufactuers don't recomend it.( there are stylists out there that still do it anyway) However it's legal for them to use eyebrow / eyelash tint. Most often this color is deposit only which means to make darker.

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

k, kelly, here are the facts. i would love to do your hair... sorry you are having so many probs with these hairdressers.

anyway... i understand where they are coming from, but they should just accept the challenge, its not like they don't have a huge array of products to work with if something goes wrong... or maybe they just aren't confident in the products they have to use. either way, you got raped, and that really sucks!

bottom line is that your hair is gonna get very damaged, but you would have had a better chance if they had of just done what you wanted the first time, cuz now you are gonna have to go back and re-submit your hair to the bleach, and truthfully its gonna be bad news.

i want to recomend that you use "kaliedocolors" it is THE BEST bleach i have found. it processes for 10mins and that it IT you get even, great color in 10mins---way better than some products that process for 55mins or more.

in conclusion i say go to sallys beauty supply and find a friend to help you if you have any confidence in your hair coloring skills. otherwise, find someone who will do it, cuz it is possible. also i agree with RED you spent way too much money at that one place to not be happy, so if you wanna go back i think you should ask them to give you what you want. and again, congrats on losing that weight.... just don't find it again!!!!

My hair dresser doesn't want to dye my hair blonde; what should I do?

wel this is easy. SInce your hair is dark , its okay to dye your hair blonde because you can always go back. ( if your blonde and go back and want to come back, it does NOT work , trust me, my sister for example, she was a dark blonde, went brown, hated it, tried to go back, but it looks SO wierd. but ok i mean she has to get those root touch up things but whatever)just go back a since your hair is lighter, they might do it, if not, go somewhere else. for those who think she paid alot , your wrong, since they died her hair, and added probably 2 diferent blonde color highlights, then it would add up to that. and if she got her hair cut it would add to that too.

but basically , if they still wont do it, and you dont feel comfortable with going some where else, go buy a L' Oreal blonde hair dye, or that other one that begins with a C (cant remember it sorry!)

and they have like tons of diferent blonde colors. and these dont look cheap either so yeah. You could see if John Fredia has hair dye, i think they do. pick one out and have a friend help (follow directions carefully!!) and there ya go. It worked for my friend jill. (went the same way your going, and it looks good on her) I had to help and it was a blast. (we had to dye her hair twice becuz i meesed up on a direction cuz i was crakin up!!)

You could also go back and complain to the manager, but i wouldnt do it. i would go back and see if theyll do. (also always go with a couple of friends when you back, that way itll be like 3 against 1 !!!) it. it is totally up to you . good luck!!

well anyway you could also

Hair dresser with experience with children's hair??

My daughter has very fine, long, wavy hair, and it often just looks like a frizzy mass; is there something I can do to make her hair more manageable? a product or technique? any suggestions? Shes only four but loves having her hair long, we just need a way to make it easier to work with so it doesnt look a mess an hour after we do her hair in the morning.....

Hair dresser with experience with children's hair??

My daughter has the same texture of hair as your daughter. She was 5 when I had her Godmother (a professional hairdresser) flat-iron her hair. There are only three hairdresser that I will trust to flat-iron her hair. I chose one of them because her daughters had a fine texture of hair also.

Hair dresser with experience with children's hair??

Umm... you could straighten it. buy a flat iron and do it.. but i dont know how safe that is since she's soo young. because straightening it makes it much easier to manage. and its pretty

Hair dresser with experience with children's hair??

hey ya lullu my Mum is a hair dresser and she always uses de frizz stuff and it controls the friz in your hair and even try straightening it with a hair straightener coz i find it keeps my hair straight, neat and tidy for the whole day!!! ps. i couldnot live without my hair straightner and de-frizz hair stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Hair dresser with experience with children's hair??

You aren't using baby shampoo on her, are you? It can be very drying. If so, start by changing shampoos.

Besides that, I would go with styling products. I have very thick poofy hair and always used the spray in conditioners when I was young-it helped to keep it down a bit. However, she may need more than that. Try any of the anti-frizz products-most work pretty good. I doubt a four year old will have enough patience for much styling!

Hair dresser with experience with children's hair??

There are many products on the market today. Stop by your local salon, they should be able to suggest something. I use Paul Mitchell Super Skinny. It softens the frizz and makes my hair shine. It's not harmful to the hair either. Matrix makes a great shampoo and conditioner that will help also. I would not recommend a flat iron, it damages the hair, and you could severely burn your daughter.

Hair dresser with experience with children's hair??

well u should slick it back , first get a perm!!! then slick it back

Hair Dressers/Stylists...I have a question...?

I'm going to get my hair done at a salon for the first time in ages. One of my friends has cut my hair for years %26amp; she has moved out of state. I want to get a cut with highlights and lowlights. How much will this cost? Like, what is the average?

Thanks!

Hair Dressers/Stylists...I have a question...?

It depends on the legnth of your hair...and how harsh your color is now and how light you'd like to go...but it's usually around %26amp;90.00 to %26amp;110.00

Hair Dressers/Stylists...I have a question...?

It really depends on how nice the salon is. If you want really cheap prices, a beauty school would be the best place.

Hair Dressers/Stylists...I have a question...?

a place like 'Rolf's' anywhere from $225-275

a place like 'Laqueesha's Hair %26amp; Nails' $100

a place like 'Your Kitchen' $25

Hair Dressers/Stylists...I have a question...?

My sister wants that and she asked the hair cutter.

Hair Dressers/Stylists...I have a question...?

For the average salon it is based on length.

Short hair - $45-$60

Medium - $55-$80

Long - $65- $100

Super Long - $100+

Hair Dressers/Stylists...I have a question...?

Yes you may receive this service at a local beauty school, but I suggest you visit a salon with a master colorist. Hair color is a tricky thing and requires a certain level of time the colorist has been in the business. Of coures it will cost more, but you will look good! If there is a school that teaches only hair color in your area,that may work. If you see someone with the service you want, ask them where they go.

What is the best way i can keep my hair healthy, full and thick without going to a hair dresser?

i have short dyed hair {neck length}, split ends, breakage everywhere. i use to have long thick, full healthy hair to my back and it broke off when my mom allowed the hair lady to cut my hair when i was 12. it grew back when i was 13, then broke off again. now it just wont do anything. i grease it every 2x a week and wrap it everynight. hair dressers cost too much because of my financial problems. what can i do to get my hair to grow back?

i know that african american women have different hair then women who arent AA. so what can i do?

What is the best way i can keep my hair healthy, full and thick without going to a hair dresser?

There are many products out there that can help your hair, which sounds like it's damaged. I would know, because I have colored hair too, and I went through a period where it was breaking off not only beacause of the color, but because I used too much heat (flat-iron, hair dryer).

The BEST thing to do is condition like crazy. You want to find a good conditioner at a beauty supply store and try to condition your hair a few times a week, but when you do, leave the conditioner in for about 20 minutes, and then wash it out. There is no magic product to help your hair, unfortunately, only certain methods.

Other advice would be to limit heat damage to your hair (I don't know if you use hot tools or anything). Get regular hair cuts as well. I know you want long hair, but long hair with split ends is not attractive - it's better to get your hair trimmed until the split ends are gone, because then it will feel fuller. I know this all first-hand. And your hair grows faster when you get regular trims too.

I would also suggest perhaps limiting coloring your hair, or finding some other way around it if you are afraid of future breakage. It's just a fact that color does damage the hair, and for people like us who can't afford the best treatment possible every single day like the stars of Hollywood, it can be difficult. Good luck!

What is the best way i can keep my hair healthy, full and thick without going to a hair dresser?

One way to ensure strong hair is to get your vitamins everyday. Take a supplement that conatins Biotin- that's the building block of hair and nails. Also getting enough water makes a huge difference.

Our hair length is "programmed" into us. Some people can not grow long hair. Its pretty common to have long hair as a child, cut it and then never have it grow so long again.

As hair falls out it is replaced by new hair. It takes about 7 years for the entire head of hair to shed and be replaced. So essentially every 7 years you have fresh hair. If you have damaged the strands with chemicals, or sometimes even antibiotics and other medications can cause breakage, sticking to a healthy diet and getting enough biotin and calcium can get you that thick hair if you stick with it long enough.

I have long hair,so what shud i ask i my hair dresser if i want short hair with blonde highlights?

i am a boy so i dont know anything about hair dressers

I have long hair,so what shud i ask i my hair dresser if i want short hair with blonde highlights?

OMG...I thought u wer a girl wen i red the question...but I saw da details...uhmmm...Yeah sure short hair works...kinda...sor'da...uhm...not the blond highlights...plz, not da blond highlights!?!?!

I have long hair,so what shud i ask i my hair dresser if i want short hair with blonde highlights?

Yes, short hair is better on guys.

I have long hair,so what shud i ask i my hair dresser if i want short hair with blonde highlights?

Just ask for a trim. Hairdressers are notorious for cutting more than you asked for.

I have long hair,so what shud i ask i my hair dresser if i want short hair with blonde highlights?

tell her you want short hair with blonde highlights

I have long hair,so what shud i ask i my hair dresser if i want short hair with blonde highlights?

You go to the hairdresser and she/he will ask you about the style (they have books you can look through and they'll advise you on what styles will look best on you) and advise you on the best highlight scheme to suit that style. If you have long hair and you're used to long hair you might hate the new style at first but give it time and you'll adjust. Good luck.

I have long hair,so what shud i ask i my hair dresser if i want short hair with blonde highlights?

ask for short hair and blond highlights

I have long hair,so what shud i ask i my hair dresser if i want short hair with blonde highlights?

Look around for some pictures as inspiration (but don't expect to look exactly like it, because everyone's hair is different and will react differently). Explain thoroughly to the stylist what you are hoping for in terms of length, style, and color. Tell him/her what you plan on doing as far as fixing your hair goes (spikey, brushed down, etc.). Also, you might want to ask for a referral to a trusted stylist if you don't already have one, because not all hair stylists are that good. Good Luck!